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by TA York
The Lavish Love of the Father (1 John 3:1-3)
“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 2 Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. 3 All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.”
The “great love” John describes is not an abstract concept; it is Jesus Christ, sent directly from the Father. Salvation isn’t something Jesus merely tried to offer—He accomplished it. It is a finished work, and our role is simply to receive it.
This love isn’t a family heirloom passed down through DNA, nor do we obtain it via “spiritual osmosis” from our parents or by simply sitting in a church pew. Many attend church without ever truly accepting Jesus as Lord. Being a “child of God” is a personal identity, distinct from being a “child of the world.”
I’ll be the first to admit I am not a perfect husband or father. I still struggle because pieces of the world remain in me. However, God’s love doesn’t mean He overlooks sin. On the contrary, a Holy God cannot coexist with sin. To bridge that gap, God became man in Jesus Christ. He set aside His heavenly crown to experience the human plight—hunger, betrayal, and pain—so He could truly understand us. This is Agape love: a pure heart that faced every temptation yet remained without sin.
The Tie That Binds
In my own home, between my wife, my three children, and my son-in-law, we have six different sets of life experiences. I am often misunderstood because my perspective is shaped by my specific past, including my pains. Just as it’s hard for me to explain my experiences to someone who hasn’t lived them, God knew that to truly have compassion for us, He had to live among us.
I grew up with parents who were legalistic—not necessarily in a religious sense, but in their rigid demand that things be done “their way.” There was little room for grace or mercy. I was determined to raise my children differently, yet I still fall short. I am constantly returning to the Cross for forgiveness because I am still learning to be Christ-like.
Empathy Born of Suffering
The world may not value my suffering, but God uses it. As children of God, we gain a unique sense of empathy. I’ve found that my past pain allows me to “feel” for others in similar situations.
The Power of Words:
I once shared a verse with a young woman who grew up under constant shame. When I told her that both Jesus and I loved her with Agape love, I watched her entire countenance change. She found peace.
The Power of Touch:
I remember hugging a homeless man who began to cry because it had been years since someone had hugged him. Because of my own past experiences with homelessness, I didn’t smell the dirt; I only saw a person to be loved.
The Power of Jesus:
Luke 5:12-13
12 “While Jesus was in one of the towns, a man came along who was covered with leprosy. When he saw Jesus, he fell with his face to the ground and begged him, “Lord, if you are willing, you can make me clean.”
13 Jesus reached out his hand and touched the man. “I am willing,” he said. “Be clean!” And immediately the leprosy left him.
Every child of God MUST experience Jesus personally. We cannot rely on someone else’s faith; we must each come to the realization that He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. That there is absolutely no other way to the Father, except through Jesus.
Walking with Godly Friends (v. 2, Luke 5:18)
In verse 2, John addresses us as “dear friends.” Friendship is vital to the Christian walk. In Proverbs, we see that healthy relationships require four pillars: Trust, Truth, Transformation, and Tenderness. If one is missing, the bond weakens.
Luke 5:18 “ Some men came carrying a paralyzed man on a mat and tried to take him into the house to lay him before Jesus.”
We see this in Luke 5:18, where men carried their paralyzed friend to Jesus. This is the model for the Church. Godly friends act as “iron sharpening iron.” They carry you when you are “lame” or wounded by life, bringing you to Jesus through prayer and non-judgmental support.
Hebrews 3:13
“ But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.”
Note: Not everyone is meant for your journey. Some people may be distractions from your specific assignment. Letting them go doesn’t mean they are “bad,” it just means you are prioritizing your walk with Christ.
Practicing Righteousness (v. 4-10)
1 John 3:4-10
4 “Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness. 5 But you know that he appeared so that he might take away our sins. And in him is no sin. 6 No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him.
7 Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous. 8 The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work. 9 No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God. 10 This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not God’s child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister.”
John is clear: living in Christ is the key, but it is the hardest part of the faith because we are bombarded by the world’s values. We see it everywhere—from the cost of Bibles versus secular books to the content on our screens. The world focuses on the “here and now,” but God gives us Toshiyah (wisdom and resourcefulness) to look ahead.
God used this wisdom to help my wife and me. Though we didn’t initially qualify for a home, He taught me how to manage our finances and pay off massive bills for roofing and plumbing. I am learning to live in Christ, but it isn’t easy.
“Practicing” is the key. Just as an athlete or a soldier practices their craft, we must practice “right standing” with God. We may not be sinless, but through practice, we should “sin less.”
The Vine and the Seed
John 15:1-4
“I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. 2 Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit. 3 You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. 4 Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me.
In John 15, Jesus calls Himself the Vine. To bear fruit, we must be pruned, which is often painful. But that pain produces endurance. 1 John 3:9 tells us that God’s “seed” remains in us. However, a seed only grows if it is watered and cultivated.
We must help each other grow and be quick to cast out any “seeds” of unforgiveness or hatred. John likely outlived the other apostles just to emphasize this one final point: Learn to love. It is a long, difficult process to love other sinners just as we have been loved, but it is our highest calling.
God bless!
by TA York
Psalms 86:1-3
“Hear me, Lord, and answer me, for I am poor and needy. Guard my life, for I am faithful to you; save your servant who trusts in you. You are my God; have mercy on me, Lord, for I call to you all day long.”
Imagine a swimmer about to enter a race, wearing a heavy jacket and full clothing. Do you suppose he will win? Would you bet your life savings on him? Of course not. You might even laugh at the sight, knowing that to win this contest, the swimmer must strip down to the bare minimum to move freely.
Time to move freely in Christ.
This is exactly how we must come to God. We need to strip off the masks of pride, selfish desires, and anger—anything that holds us back from getting “real” with Him. Many gamble with their eternity by clinging to sin while calling themselves Christians. But death can arrive in a fraction of a second. We must stop gambling and hoping that God will accept us alongside our sin.
If we refuse to forsake our sins, how can we expect God to ignore what He has expressly forbidden? If you want God to hear you, cry out: “I’m poor and needy. I’m a sinner—forgive me! I am Your servant.” Only then, through that surrender, will you find His mercy. Jesus will save and guard you, but from that point on, you must remain faithful and obey His teachings.
Don’t misunderstand: God vehemently desires to show us mercy. He loves us so much that He appointed His own Son to die for us. Yet, because God is holy, He calls us to be holy. Holding onto sin is a sign that we do not truly trust Him, regardless of the excuses we use.
Psalms 86:4
“Bring joy to your servant, Lord, for I put my trust in you.”
Trusting God brings joy; the Bible tells us it is our strength. How do I know this is true? Though doctors tell me I will die soon, I am filled with a sense of peace and His joy. Whether I live or die, I belong to Christ! I look forward to sitting at the supper table with my Lord.
Every day, I confess. Every day, I ask God to reveal my shortcomings. Nothing is greater than feeling His loving hands on my shoulders. I live in pain, but it is a small price to pay for His presence.
Consider these examples of what happens when we place our trust in Him:
David: A stone thrown by a child, guided by God, penetrates man-made armor to fell a giant.
Joseph: A slave, alone in his faith but obedient to God, becomes second-in-command of Egypt.
The Boy: A child gives Jesus two small fish and five loaves, and 5,000 are fed.
Lazarus: A man dead for days is raised to life.
Joseph (Mary’s husband): He listened to angels over the laws of men, saving Mary and the baby Jesus.
Was it the humans who performed these miracles, or was it God?
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Trust God with all your heart!
We often use personal excuses to talk ourselves out of serving Him, yet Jesus holds the answers to our yesterdays, todays, and tomorrows.
Has my Christian life been perfect? Absolutely not. I have faced persecution and rejection for my beliefs.
Yet, I echo the words of the martyr Polycarp:
“Eighty-six years have I served Him, and He never once wronged me; how then shall I blaspheme my King, who has saved me?”
What are you waiting for? God invites you this very minute to return to His loving arms. Pray this with me:
“Jesus, forgive me for my failures. I cry out to You; I am poor and needy. I need You in my life. Help me to overcome the sin that so easily ensnares me. Help me to be obedient to Your word, for I cannot do it alone. I trust in You. Thank You, Jesus, for hearing me. In Jesus mighty name, Amen.”
Daily recommitment builds faith. Praying against strongholds allows the Holy Spirit to guide you. Praying for humility calms the heart, and praying for wisdom grounds you on a solid foundation.
It is okay to question God about the hardships of life; it is okay to be upset when you don’t understand.
The Bible says, “Be still and know that I am God.” Wait for His answer. As humans, we want to fix things with our own hands, but that is often a mistake. Allow God to answer. Often, the answer comes from the strangest place when you least expect it. That is how it has always been for me.
Press on, good pilgrims. Press on in the name of Jesus.
God bless.